A big part of the 31 Days Unplugged challenge has, for me, been about time management. I have found that when I am unplugged, I have a lot of time to do other things. How do I spend that time for the glory of God and the good of my family? I have grown a lot this month in that area, and found that several new and exciting opportunities have arisen due to my new focus. I hope that is true for you, too!
Recently, my husband and I had to decide whether or not to sign Charlie up to play T-Ball this Spring. I really wanted him to start playing, but Jason wasn’t so sure. I thought it would be good for Charlie to meet some more kids his own age and start getting some baseball skills. Jason thought he was too young and unfocused, and he also knew that we would have to sacrifice a lot of our free time (which we really value) to take Charlie to practice and games.
In the end, we decided to wait a while longer to begin playing organized sports, and even though I was disappointed at the time, I am now relieved that we don’t have to spend our Saturdays this spring at the ballpark, especially after talking with some friends who are stressing out, trying to figure out how to add ball practice into their already busy schedules.
Having too little unstructured time is a problem for a lot of people, whether you have children or not. We run from one activity to another, spending hours a day in our vehicles (with the kids watching movies or playing on the phone). We spend our Saturdays rushing from one game to another, then from birthday party to birthday party. What are we trying to accomplish, exactly?
According to the National Wildlife Federation, today’s children in America spend less than 30 minutes a day in unstructured play and 7 hours or more in front of some sort of electronic device! That just sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it?
No wonder so many of our children are obese, diagnosed with ADHD and depression, and simply stressed-out!
Today’s post is an extension of yesterday’s challenge to cut down on your family’s time in front of the TV.
Challenge #12 – This weekend, structure at least one hour a day of unstructured time into your schedule. (That sounds ironic, doesn’t it?) In my opinion, that isn’t enough unstructured time, but that’s a good start. Spend this time doing WHATEVER you want to do, and let your kids do WHATEVER they want to do (except watch TV, of course:)).
I am a big believer in unstructured time, and a large portion of our days are spent with the kids simply playing. I have always believed strongly that that is how kids learn and make memories, not by being shuttled from one activity to the next. We’ve got to give ourselves and our families time to just be.