I have most of my posts for the month already written and scheduled so that I won’t be stressing about writing something every day, but I decided to change things around a bit and actually write tonight. Today was difficult for me and I felt like I should share it with you. My goal, after all, is to help someone who may be struggling, and to do that I feel the need to talk about my own struggles.
For those who have been participating since the beginning, this was our 3rd day unplugged. I have only been on social media at nighttime, and not for very long then. Saturday and Sunday were pieces of cake, but we were really busy and were surrounded by people.
Today, however, was a different story. Everyone went to work, leaving the kids and myself at home. I am a stay-at-home-mom, so of course I don’t have a problem with that, but we were kind of stranded at the house today. We were all tired from a busy weekend and the weather has been horrible, so we couldn’t even have anyone over.
Our day began really early, and I had a feeling it was going to be a tough one…and it was. I had the urge SO many times to check on Facebook or Instagram really quickly, but I didn’t. I was bored, tired of talking to the kids, and just…grumpy. Normally when I am feeling like this, I would zone out online for a little while, but I couldn’t do that today. When the sun finally set and I could log onto Facebook, I realized something-I had missed nothing. Facebook really is a waste of time for me.
Instead of spending precious time on the Internet today, I got so much done around the house that I had been putting off. The kids and I went through their toy boxes and cleaned out Maddie’s closet. I ironed clothes for Jason, and the kids and I even watched a movie in the middle of the day. It feels so good to have those things done, and I honestly wouldn’t have done them if I had been online.
Our nighttime routine has run much more smoothly tonight, and I don’t fell stressed out at all right now.
I see the point of unplugging, and I hope you do, too. We need to pay attention to how we are spending our time. I am sharing this not to brag about what I accomplished today, but to tell you that it was hard for me today. Now I see that it was worth it, and I know that tomorrow will be easier.
No additional challenge today-just continue on with what we have started.